Thursday, February 23, 2012

Wow, what a response that I got from the last post... This is what a friend wrote, after another friend wrote about her husband gaming all the time...
I went to an online game back in the day...and stayed there for quite a while..because the proactive attitude and action based on desire and love was absent from the other half. Computer games are great, games are fun, but they PALE in comparison to the "games" an infatuated couple can play....as the many erotica companies would attest. As Melanie pointed out..men want respect..biblically a man is to love his wife, a wife is to respect her husband..and to get that respect..which we translate as love..we can become "Yes dear" men...mentally emasculating us until we fit your description. A healthy relationship with earnest love and embraced passion can cure all of that...imho.
This was my response Shouldnt respect go both ways though? Many men take it that when they put a ring on a womens finger, that means they now have control and you live life the way they want... I was one that got lost in that crap.. When I married R, I had the obey line taken out... With his help, I have become very strong and independent. Maybe too independent at times but hey, its all good. You say you got lost in the gaming world, because a lack of love and desire. Well how far did a game get you? Men want respect, then give respect back and a man is to love a woman, sometimes love isnt enough. IMHO
A friend recently brought up a subject that I think should be addressed: Everyday concerns about that women have about their men.....What are your concerns with your men? Leaving the toilet seat up, which my husband is very thoughtful and he does put it back down or leaving a mess in the kitchen , now this he is guilty of. Whats your thoughts? Starting tomorrow..... we will be working on YOUR BRAND..... Who are you? What makes you tick? Where do you want to see yourself in the next 5 years....

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